There are many benefits of being mentally strong. Your confidence will automatically increase, as well as your ability to make sound decisions. Difficult situations, such as illness or work related stress, can be managed much easier if you are mentally strong.
Never Feel Sorry For Yourself:
Never waste time feeling sorry about yourself. If you are unable to do something then try to do it again and again to make it happen, it will come to you. If you waste time feeling sorry for yourself, your work wont be done by itself. It will stay the way it was. You will go three steps behind instead. So, stop feeling sorry for yourself, instead just do it!
Do Not Let Other People Take Decisions For You:
Do not let other people take decisions for you. Because it's your life. You are the one to take decisions for yourself. If there was any past experience that made you give away your powers to others, then you're completely doing it wrong. People make mistakes. But they never stick with that. So never stick with your mistakes and do not let someone else lead your life. It's your life and you own it. Learn to know what is good for you and what is not. It is for your own betterment.
Never Have The Fear Of Changing:
Never be afraid of changing. If you are trying to change then just do it. Never be frightened. It might seem a bit awkward to other people but it's for your own good. So change for your betterment. Change for yourself. Change and be more confident.
Stop Complaining:
Stop complaining about your life, about your surroundings. Try to deal with it. It has to happen. So accept it. If you can not change anything then stop complaining, because your complaining will not change it right away. If you do not stop complaining then it will worsen the situation. So stop complaining and deal with it. If you can not deal with it then ignore it. If it is not coming to you, then you do not have to go to it. It will create more disturbance in your life. So ignore and think about your own things and stop paying attention to what's bothering you.
Learn To Say "NO":
You don't have to please people to show how good you are. If you are actually good then people will know that by being with you. Learn to say NO to people. You can't do everything they tell you to do. Nobody can. So if there is something you do not want to do, just say NO! Go for it. You are not doing this to make the other person upset or something, you're just being HONEST. So be HONEST! You don't have to please every single person in the world. Please yourself first, then think about others.
Try Taking Risks:
There is nothing to be afraid of taking risks. If you know what is going to happen after you take the risk and if it is good for you, then just go for it! There is a saying,
--" Life starts outside of your comfort zone. "
So never have the fear of taking risks. Because, you might miss out really great opportunities.
Do not Dwell On The Past:
No good is going to happen dwelling on the past. If you keep thinking about your past and keep regretting about things then you will stick with your past and you can never look forward to the future. So stop regretting. Try something new. Look forward to the future. Never expect things which were never for you. Learn to accept it. Just forget the past and make a new start. This is the only way to make your life better. Always remember, if you stick to your past then you can never shine in life or have a good life either.
Learn From Your Mistakes:
Being self reflective in a very productive way will help to really not make those mistakes like expecting something from things that were never meant to be for you. Learn from your mistakes. Never repeat your mistakes. Repeating your mistakes will make your life miserable. If you are planning to repeat the mistakes that made your life worse, then think twice before doing so. If you don't go back to your mistakes then you will have a wonderful life for sure.
Be Inspired With Other's Success:
If you see someone being successful, do not be jealous of them. Be proud of other people's success. It will inspire you to become successful. If you are jealous of successful people then you can never be successful like them. Because, always remember that your time is going to come too.
Never Give Up:
Never give up on your failure. It takes multiple times to be successful. All the great people had fallen down lots and lots of time to reach their goals. So never give up, keep on trying. You time will come, 'cause it has to come, You will make it come to you.
Never Fear Loneliness:
Never be afraid of being alone. 'cause alone time is the time for yourself. It is the time to sit back and think about your life. You need the time to think about your life and plan for the future and set your goals. This is the time when you have greatest thoughts. So make a good use of your alone time and never loose hope.
Do Not Give Attention To Other People's Thoughts:
Never care about what people are thinking about you. Never have ego. Do not care about the world, care about yourself. Because you are the one making it better and it is the world that is trying not letting you have a better life. So care about yourself, care about your life. Do what you want. If you keep paying attention to other people's thoughts then you can never be successful in your life.
Do not Expect Immediate Results:
Fast foods are not good for your health but home made slow cooked foods are good for you. So this is an example of being successful immediately and being successful with hard work. If you try to be successful immediately then that is never going to happen. If you do then you will loose it fast too. To help you out you can keep a record of what you are doing and your success. So that if you loose hope then they will help you encourage yourself.
Never Feel Sorry For Yourself:
Never waste time feeling sorry about yourself. If you are unable to do something then try to do it again and again to make it happen, it will come to you. If you waste time feeling sorry for yourself, your work wont be done by itself. It will stay the way it was. You will go three steps behind instead. So, stop feeling sorry for yourself, instead just do it!
Do Not Let Other People Take Decisions For You:
Do not let other people take decisions for you. Because it's your life. You are the one to take decisions for yourself. If there was any past experience that made you give away your powers to others, then you're completely doing it wrong. People make mistakes. But they never stick with that. So never stick with your mistakes and do not let someone else lead your life. It's your life and you own it. Learn to know what is good for you and what is not. It is for your own betterment.
Never Have The Fear Of Changing:
Never be afraid of changing. If you are trying to change then just do it. Never be frightened. It might seem a bit awkward to other people but it's for your own good. So change for your betterment. Change for yourself. Change and be more confident.
Stop Complaining:
Stop complaining about your life, about your surroundings. Try to deal with it. It has to happen. So accept it. If you can not change anything then stop complaining, because your complaining will not change it right away. If you do not stop complaining then it will worsen the situation. So stop complaining and deal with it. If you can not deal with it then ignore it. If it is not coming to you, then you do not have to go to it. It will create more disturbance in your life. So ignore and think about your own things and stop paying attention to what's bothering you.
Learn To Say "NO":
You don't have to please people to show how good you are. If you are actually good then people will know that by being with you. Learn to say NO to people. You can't do everything they tell you to do. Nobody can. So if there is something you do not want to do, just say NO! Go for it. You are not doing this to make the other person upset or something, you're just being HONEST. So be HONEST! You don't have to please every single person in the world. Please yourself first, then think about others.
Try Taking Risks:
There is nothing to be afraid of taking risks. If you know what is going to happen after you take the risk and if it is good for you, then just go for it! There is a saying,
--" Life starts outside of your comfort zone. "
So never have the fear of taking risks. Because, you might miss out really great opportunities.
Do not Dwell On The Past:
No good is going to happen dwelling on the past. If you keep thinking about your past and keep regretting about things then you will stick with your past and you can never look forward to the future. So stop regretting. Try something new. Look forward to the future. Never expect things which were never for you. Learn to accept it. Just forget the past and make a new start. This is the only way to make your life better. Always remember, if you stick to your past then you can never shine in life or have a good life either.
Learn From Your Mistakes:
Being self reflective in a very productive way will help to really not make those mistakes like expecting something from things that were never meant to be for you. Learn from your mistakes. Never repeat your mistakes. Repeating your mistakes will make your life miserable. If you are planning to repeat the mistakes that made your life worse, then think twice before doing so. If you don't go back to your mistakes then you will have a wonderful life for sure.
Be Inspired With Other's Success:
If you see someone being successful, do not be jealous of them. Be proud of other people's success. It will inspire you to become successful. If you are jealous of successful people then you can never be successful like them. Because, always remember that your time is going to come too.
Never Give Up:
Never give up on your failure. It takes multiple times to be successful. All the great people had fallen down lots and lots of time to reach their goals. So never give up, keep on trying. You time will come, 'cause it has to come, You will make it come to you.
Never Fear Loneliness:
Never be afraid of being alone. 'cause alone time is the time for yourself. It is the time to sit back and think about your life. You need the time to think about your life and plan for the future and set your goals. This is the time when you have greatest thoughts. So make a good use of your alone time and never loose hope.
Do Not Give Attention To Other People's Thoughts:
Never care about what people are thinking about you. Never have ego. Do not care about the world, care about yourself. Because you are the one making it better and it is the world that is trying not letting you have a better life. So care about yourself, care about your life. Do what you want. If you keep paying attention to other people's thoughts then you can never be successful in your life.
Do not Expect Immediate Results:
Fast foods are not good for your health but home made slow cooked foods are good for you. So this is an example of being successful immediately and being successful with hard work. If you try to be successful immediately then that is never going to happen. If you do then you will loose it fast too. To help you out you can keep a record of what you are doing and your success. So that if you loose hope then they will help you encourage yourself.
hello; congrats on the new blog; as a supremely positive person i can attest to the value of being able to find the good in any situation. it isn't always easy to find the ray of sunshine but you can if you look for it. it helps if you know in your heart it is there to find. i do have one point of disagreement with you. Often if you can't do something it means you just need to ask for help. asking for help is not a sign of weakness. instead it is you giving another person the opportunity to help the chance to share their knowledge and take joy in the success of another person. my dad had a saying that a one man band doesn't play too loudly for too long. and on the back of my business card is a line i live by never be afraid to ask because if you don't ask they can't say yes. and i agree with what you said about not feeling sorry for yourself. i'm a totally blind blogger podcaster self published author aspiring coach and speaker. much of this was difficult but i have gotten here through hard work consistent action good friends family and a positive attitude. wishing you all the best with your blog, max the blind blogger www.theblindblogger.net
ReplyDeleteThank you so much! :D I feel blessed that you liked my blog. I totally appreciate your disagreement. Its fine to ask for help, but in my perspective I disagree with the fact of being depended on someone. :) Asking for help and being depended on someone in my perspective is not the same. :)
DeleteThank you for the appreciation. I will absolutely work on it.
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